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Paul R's avatar

“There’s a Japanese method or repair known as kintsugi, where cracked bowls are glued back together with lacquer mixed with precious metal. The repair becomes a feature, a thing of beauty, not a shameful breakage to be hidden or denied.”

I used to have an acquaintance who had a mantra “Everything in my life has prepared me for this moment”. I sometimes think about that statement when faced with life’s vicissitudes. “I am who I am because of my experiences, not ‘inspite of the bad stuff’. “

Another compelling post, Katy, thank you for sharing.

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Marvelous essay. The stories about Gaiman are troubling and this helps me make sense of them. He's a terrific author; if he's also a monster how do we reconcile that with his work? (American Gods is really good - give it another chance. His translation/cleaning up of Norse myths is also wonderful - and both of those are pretty dark). There's a parallel issue with judges: sometimes admired judges turn out to be terrible people in their personal lives. Sol Wachtler was thought to be one of the great judges in the US (Chief Judge of the NY Court of Appeals (top level court) in the 1980s). Then it came out he made terrible threats against a former lover and her daughter, which led him to be criminally convicted and serve time in prison. So how do we treat his brilliant legal opinions as a judge? The Oklahoma Supreme Court had multiple justices on the payroll of a lawyer for decades; when it came out they'd taken bribes in so many cases that they couldn't remember which ones, the judiciary had to figure out how to treat those decades of precedents. (Oklahoma pretty much punted - only if there was proof that a particular decision was the result of the bribes would it be disregarded; yet there was no proof because there were so many.....). Perhaps a comparison of bad men/good author-judge could be a law journal article for you!

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